Late Night at KFC..................

Marriage....

This post is definitely not going to talk about me and marriage.........

"love is blind, marriage is the eye-opener"

Marriage is a big thing.....marriage would mean a lot of responsibilities and this should be something a couple should be prepared for. A couple therefore needs to talk about it as a basis of planning the marriage.

Just couple minutes ago I had some quality time at KFC with a female friend who is planning to get married this year. But several question suddenly popping up and seems to burden her alot.

She said:
It seems that we have problem in communicating our need to each other. It seems that I'm the one who keeps dominating when its time to share. He was just a listener........

I said:
Well...communication is the basis of relationship. Effective communication should occur in both ways. How can someone talk so much while the other talk so little?. Hmm.....my opinion is that the one who talk-so-little is trying to please the talk-so-much. He listens in order to get accepted. Or maybe like you said before, you were dominating the speech and not giving him enough space to talk....

Mutual sharing in communications is important!

She said:
Is he the one??

I said:
Well...that's basic! And frankly I don't know how to define if someone is your real soulmate or not?? It's a life time process......

And many questions followed afterwards...............

Hmmm.....both of us not married yet, so actually it was a conversation which full of assumption.....Hey! How could I know something that I never experience....