Ternyata temen bisa jadi musuh?
Ternyata berseberangan pendapat, perbedaan pola pikir, pemilihan jalan yang berbeda bisa membuat perpecahan....
Aku PERNAH punya teman. Smart, good looking, firm, loves to hang out.....and many things that suits us to be friend.
I liked to talk to her and asked her opinion about something regarding her knowledge. And really love the way she answered every single question I made.
Vice versa, she often asked me to get different view about her problem.....
I called it mutual friendship......
We both also realized something....
Yes! we have something in common of being stubborn!
But for some I did-not-know-what-reason, we tend to always find ways to cope with our differences and stubborness.......until,
Well, I decide something about my life that in my opinion, it was not even connected to her. She felt bothered and kind of making distance with me. She did not want to have a 'not normal' friend. She hated the path that I have chosen......but a friend should accept any condition's that I have rite??
I call it Unconditional friendship??
So at first, I ignored it....ignored every reactions she made towards me....I thought that she might need time to get adjusted.
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It's been 4 months now, as my position in Kalimantan, yesterday I sent her email simply asking about her life.
But I didn't even have a nice response.....
I call it now......conditional friendship.......and I hate it!
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IMHO,emang temen seharusnya akan slalu nrima kita apa adanya, tp mas, temen yg baek adalah temen yg tau kalo kita salah n mau ngingetin kita buat menuju kebaikan!
percaya deh mas, punya temen yg mau ngingetin lebih enak daripada punya temen yg sekedar nerima kita apa adanya! (ini berdasar pengalamanku looh mas)
bdw mana crita idup d kalimantannya!
hehehe aku pernah juga ngerasa digituin dan gituin orang loh hahaha tapi sebenernya saat aku gituin temanku, aku cuma bingung harus memperlakukan dia gimana, karena pasti semua udah beda. hehehehe btw jerman kalah, oezil tetap dihati :p
sabar klo gt bro hehehe, belanda masih jauh lohhhh
setuju ma perez :)
sabar aja,BaS..
semoga suatu saat dia bisa mengerti dan menerima kamu-temannya- apa adanya.
Setiap orang pernah merasa seperti itu, tapi kita harus mencoba untuk tidak seperti itu. Walau kenyataannya manusia hanyalah manusia, dimana segala sifat berada :)
Salam kenal,
Deny
memang gak mudah menjalani persahabatan tanpa syarat. tapi harus dicoba terus.
sahabat sejati seharusnya ada di saat kita susah.
kalo dia memang sahabat yang baik..
--tanpa dibilangpun..
---harusnya juga dia dah tahu....
jadi makhluk sosial itu, rumit mas... (curhat)
Kenapa lagi loe ki? Pasti sama...!
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